My wife died tonight how can I go on

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    Martinod

      I am so so sad I don’t know what to do my wife (51) (jude) died tonight  in Monklands hospital after being in hospital for a month , I was with her I held her hand as she past away

      we were married for 32 years

      she was my life I don’t know what to do , I miss her so much

      i don’t know how I can go on without her

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      Chris (Chester)

        My condolences Martin, I’ve recently also lost loved ones and I know how hoard it feels at the moment, concentrate on the good times you had together… Stay strong for the kids!

        #141882
        Oscarmax
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          I am so sorry Martin, I don’t know what to say.

          Unfortunately I have suffered a brain injury and occasionally I get confused and often say the wrong thing.

          #143040
          Martinod

            Judes funeral is on Monday

            #143050
            joss
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              I wish you all the best Martin as you lay Jude to rest. Remember, Jude will all ways be in your heart. God bless.

              Joss
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              #143051
              brydo

                Martinod Monday will be your hardest day you’ve had since the day Jude passed, hopefully with your family around you, you will get through it. Nothing in life prepares you for the loss of the person you love, nothing anyone says will ease the pain you are feeling but hopefully after Monday you can start to heal. Jude will be with you for the rest of your life and talking about her helps to keep the memories you shared fresh in your mind. So don’t be afraid to recall all the times you shared together it will help in the long run.

                #143057
                ajn

                  Thoughts will be with you and your family Martin for Monday, don’t hesitate to come here hopefully in some way we can help you through this.
                  Jude must have been truly loved, so it’s only natural she will be truly missed.

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                  Avatar photoVinnie
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                    Thoughts are with you for Monday, it will not be easy but hopefully you will have your family around, but don’t bottle things up, you need to talk, you need to cry but you also need to laugh. Vent on here if you need to, we will all understand, take care of yourself.

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                    #143067
                    Tharg
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                      My deepest sympathies, Martin. I wish you well for your sad Monday.

                      #143070
                      Lou

                        Thoughts will be with you & yours on Monday <3 x

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