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So we are due to collect on Monday next week and are desperately in need of some advice and guidance. Will explain as best I can.
The dealership we are collecting from is, if traffic is bad, up to 90mins drive away from us.
My fiancée (Mother of the scheme member) is the appointee so from what I’ve read she has to be in attendance.
My fiancée doesn’t drive so I’m the nominated driver, so I have to be in attendance to drive the car away.
We have a 3yr old daughter together who is diagnosed autistic and suffers from GDD and has little to no understanding or receptive language. Both of us have estranged families that are unwilling or unable to provide childcare for the handover, so little one and car seat has to come too.
We were in A&E 2 weeks ago with the little one as she suddenly started drinking refusing which eventually culminated in a full 24hours with no liquid intake at all. Nothing physically wrong was found. When we got her home we managed to get her drinking slightly via syringing, and her drinking has now slightly improved to the point that yesterday she accepted juice from her actual juice cup. This limits our ability to be outside the house for lengthy periods of time. She has not yet accepted juice outside the house and we are terrified that if we try to force the issue on Monday that we may undo all our hard work up to this point
So to cut a long story short, we need advice as to how long the handover actually takes. What is the bare minimum I would need explained/checked to be able to drive away asap? What paperwork needs to be completed and who can actually complete it? Stuff I’ve seen online says it can take hours and we absolutely can’t do that long.
Any and all advice would be welcomed and appreciated
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