Looking at our family, my in-laws have a Bev, a new BYD Design from Motability, no driveway, charge at a local hub once a week or so.
We have a Bev, Kia Soul, next car is very likely to also be a Bev via the scheme.
Son also has a Bev, an MG ZS he traded his Duster for. He’s loving it.
I am not a Bev evangelist, get whatever vehicle floats your boat & it does annoy me that diesel versions of cars were dropped from the scheme, reducing choice and pushing small engined large cars with fuel economy way off their alleged WLTP.
In life, it's not who you know that's important, it's how your wife found out.