Yes that seems strange about not being allowed to add options/packs. Maybe he made a mistake , maybe that particular dealer doesn’t do that incase someone cancels and they’ve got a car sitting there with some added options.
as far as the privacy glass I would worry as it’s never dark enough and go to your local window tint company and it shouldn’t be more than £200
allnmy cars including my current JCW came with privacy glass but I’ve always paid a firm to add a dark tint
congratulations on the new order 💪🏻 what sort of time scale they give you for delivery?
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