We have very similar requirements, our current top two are the Peugeot 5008 and the Tiggo 8. We may take a look at the KGM Actyon. The X-Trail isn’t as big as it appears and the Kodiaq was poor value for money in a decent trim level.
The 5008 is looking favourite, huge boot and hybrid but I actually prefer the style of the Tiggo 8, however the hybrid is expensive and the ICE has terrible MPG.
If I seem a little strange, that's because I am.
Skoda Karoq SEL.