I see neither sarcasm or judgement. I see people offering support in backing your decision and asking you not to worry about the Scheme in three years time. It was certainly a very different proposition three years ago compared to today.
Agree. After posting I felt happy that it would help re-enforce that if he stuck to his original decision there was nothing to worry about. There was not one iota of malice or judgment from me, so i feel very sad about the long rant but I have broad shoulders and will get over it.
