So one orders a car which didn’t have pilot included as standard when they ordered it, but somehow you expect to receive it and somehow your upset. You’ve received t exactly what you ordered. I’ve personally discounted the XC40 and other Volvos over the years as Pilot or ACC didn’t come as standard and often was as much as £1500 extra. Many car manufactures are adopting these methods as the 2nd owner may pay to activate it and that’s an attractive model to them.
As for reversing I have a ex30 and you can turn off the RAB if needed. which I need to do to get it onto my real tight offroad parking spot. I don’t suffer such issues as usually, when I do reverse. I just let the car creep and cover the brake pedal, maybe that will help the such abrupt stopping of the safety system, you are experiencing.
EX30 SMER Ultra