Thanks all 🙂
Almost total silence over the last 3 days or so, I got my ex’s sister to go round yesterday to check on them. Not good, they are both going to the doctors today, whether they will get to see anyone is unlikely.
My ex is going to ask her work about shifting her holidays to January or February, if she can do this we can at least move the cruise back a month or two instead of cancelling it.
Nobody else available here to cat-sit, it would usually be my daughter or son. If I took my son with me instead of my ex my daughter can’t do it as she’s in no fit state at the moment and wouldn’t want to be away from her other cat. If my ex came it would mean leving my daughter on her own so not a good option at this time.
Hopefully my ex can shift her dates and things will improve over the next few weeks.
Please excuse spelling/typos. Apart from being a clot it turns out I had one on my cerebellum that's now causing various problems!