Most people in bad weather follow advice and stay at home, those that don’t how many are prepared? How many become a burden on others needing rescue or blocking roads.
Regardless of 4wd or not unless you know how drive it too then you’re still not going to win. We live in a valley and you know the most vehicles I see stick in bad weather here? Range Rovers, every time.
Also 4wd/awd doesn’t do a lot of good traditionally of course if you don’t have a decent diff.
There’s far more to good control in winter than 4wd, tyres, whether roads treated, driving style, snow type, ice type. As for a 2 ton vehicle moving, 4wd is for moving the car not stopping it surely equally important is your safety gadgets like ABS, EBD, ESP whatever acronyms are in use.
Really don’t think someone celebrating their choice of car is the place to raise this debate it’s almost belittling someone’s choice whether that was meant or not and it’s that that leads to people not posting.