If you have a disability you are as pompous as the rest of the the able bodied. Sorry for morbidly obese people who are not able to get out of bed because they have given up attitude. People who are in wheelchairs may have eaten too much and cannot be arsed..Maybe they should move themselves instead of scrubbing! No, I think that the problem with society is that you are not immune to becoming disabled and unless people who are morbidly obese due to spinal damage or diseases then why do you think that you won’t fall off your bike? See you are not talking sensibly. You do not know how others, especially wheelchair bound people would probably be seen. Because I looked after my parents and my Mum, gave up. She had a rare form arthritis which suddenly hit her and her body became unable to cope and she felt safe in bed. However I pushed my mummy round in her wheelchair and she said it made her feel like a nobody after years of walking everywhere up Welsh mountains and then I said, don’t speak to me, speak to my mother. People see fat people in wheelchairs as lazy lard arses. And accuse them and speak to them like they are imbeciles. And speak to the wheelchair pusher. I used to say speak to my mother, and have some bloody respect. So you also are self critique of your wife. Think on…how long can You keep a grip on the road? I fell off my bike. Twice. But everyone is going through whatever and disabled wheelchair victims are victimised by their spouses even more. So think on. Everyone. This is a site that is guided by selfish people who I am in no financial position to be able to be so lucky to have the kindness of a caring family. I walk to my last breath. It’s not easy with spinal injuries though. Helps to be morbidly obese because there are many people who get so fat they just eat and eat because they have mental problems and food is their drug of choice. Fact.