[Martinod]

This is just a personal observation  ,  I joint this form a  about two years ago or thereabouts ,

I loved it I talked about it all the time , lots of like minded people , but over the time  Iv noticed since Iv became a member on here that there are lots of people are very righteous (if that’s the correct term to describe them) There seams to be more and more  of resent , it has really made my enjoyment of this forum so unpleasant now. I understand people are entitled to their own opinion however it seams to be comments are very cheeky or derogatory or down right nasty , it’s like they’re comments imply their  so much better than  the person their bitching about , their like a bitchy old neighbour that complains about everything in your street.

I mostly just use this forum for the list of car changes now but even on there I’m finding lots of bitching  every time I read  nasty bitchy stuff I do so much want to comment but if I did I’d get bard on here I just want to tell these nasty people to stfu ( shut the f?!?£? Up you ars£&@?! but I don’t

When your nasty to someone you don’t know how that affects the person . Iv commented about this in the past I think.

Will it change probably not please try and think about what affect your bitchy comments have on the person before you comment would you like someone to say that comment about you probably not ,

i will still something post maybe

its nice to be nice .

thanks for reading

martin

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[ajn]

Martinod can I reply to this in a way of an apology, or an agreement however you see to read it..

I have brought this sort of thing up before, & retaliated on others behalf..

Only to have it directed at me, my intention tbh..

I put it down an issue I’ll not sit comfortable, and simply can’t respect..

My registered blue name has been taken away ?, so in effect BARD as you put it…

So here’s a Sorry if I’ve offended you in a post, or anything I’ve added, or otherwise I admire your strength of character..

[DumfriesDik]

I don’t take too much notice of stuff said on a forum these days. With the advent of social media, which I don’t subscribe to, you have to accept that some people will hold a differing opinion to you and that they may have different values. They will let you know it.

On this forum I have noticed two ‘gangs’. Those that despise Motability and mention how much profit they make. And others who seem to get along and appreciate the scheme for what it is.

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[wmcforum]

Martin,

We have been through a tough couple of years, we are nearly out the other side and disappointingly it’s not all sunshine and roses. There seems to be a lot of fences around at the moment with people on either side, be that electric cars, motability, court cases etc. We are a symptom of the disease here on the forum, there is not a lot of harmony around and it saddens me deeply.

[Rico]

People that think they know it all or have the right to reply why there know it behaviour (without knowing all facts, info) are present here. I think they attempted to upset me on a post. But had to be put in a place, see before my disabilities became disabling I was assigned to the UN force out in Old Yugoslavia and the stuff I saw there and still have nightmares about to this day  make me look down on anyone trying to be righteous behind a keyboard as I just see a cowardly personality behind every sentence.  But having been though and seen what I have seen I also know that some of these people have got this way for the very same reason they act like it on the internet, they have been belittled in real life and their response is to try and re direct that energy on others… is it right? No it’s not and it’s not ok, but always try to reply to these people with facts and be yourself, don’t drop to that level and just maybe, they might realise they are being a twat. We can live and hope and be in peace one day at a time.

[crispy]

This forum is called “Which Mobility Car”, so should be about the available vehicles and WAVs that Motability make available for its customers. I rarely see posts about WAVs.

[WardyGTC]

I think it has something to do with human nature. Look at any forum or any social media platform and you’ll see similar examples of behaviour.

I ditched all social media and forums a couple of years ago for that very reason. This is the only place I frequent purely because it’s a useful resource and better than most for keeping things sensible.

If I seem a little strange, that's because I am.

Peugeot 5008 GT Premium.

[MikeFromLFEW]

Well said Martin!

I very rarely post on here because I see people slapped down all the time by others with strong views and ‘loud keyboards’.
I don’t have a petrolhead mentality, but am interested in how car technology is developing and how it can help disabled people like my wife (I’m an enthusiastic cyclist – so I guess I’m a hate-magnet on many car forums).

There are snippets of useful news here and reading the forum has helped my navigate the Motability scheme to find the best car for our circumstances.

This forum is part of the Social Media world (and I’m bemused as to why people think forums aren’t Social Media) and all forms of Social Media attract bullies who like to hide behind their keyboards. I won’t engage with them.

[fwippers]

I find the forum, on the whole, to be very good, lots of useful information and opinions, combined with a degree of humour. Perhaps from time to time people cross lines but this is simply a reflection of society.  As an example, many are passionate about Electric vehicles, whilst others hold a different opinion, however we should be able to debate in a mature way. as they say in other countries “cada loco con su tema”. (each to their own).

 

[Retired&Lovingit]

Absolutely spot on Martinod .

There are a number of participants of this forum who’s sole aim as far as I can see is to belittle,  patronise and talk down to other members.

As far as they are concerned no one else’s opinion matters they see themselves as the fountain of knowledge.

We are all no better than each other on here and it should be a really nice decent forum with all of us having one another’s backs .

Sadly it’s not , when I see certain members posts or comments pop up I take a sigh and have to sit on my hands and scroll past as you know it will be just another smart Alec remark or an excuse to either brag , talk down  or imply that somehow there knowledge is greater .

I think it gives them a sense of power .

Try to ignore them pal .

[Vinnie]

As my dear mother would have said “if you can’t say something nice, don’t say it!”

Bz4x fwd vision in silver

[ChrisK]

We are a band of brothers (and sisters) or should that be a band of righteous brothers.

 

We had a love, a love, a love you don’t find everyday
So don’t, don’t, don’t, don’t let it slip away.

 

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[joss]

Dear all. Please let me remind you of our forum rules. You can read the full vertion here.

Mission Statement
WMC Forum was born as the sidekick to http://www.whichmobilitycar.co.uk, a place where
people of the same interests, whether that be a disabled person, carer, or car dealer,
can come together and share their experiences, thoughts, and ideas on all aspects
of the Motability Scheme. Asking for help and advice, safe in the knowledge that
exchanges, views and opinions would remain respectful at all times.
Message from the Moderators
The forum was a recognition that disabled car users and carers needed a safe place
to discuss all the issues that arise in connection with the Motability scheme. We
hoped to develop it into a friendly community of posters who had common problems,
and a common interest. Sharing experiences and concerns, and asking for and
providing help and advice from our membership group experiences and research,
safe in the knowledge that exchanges of views and opinions would remain respectful
at all times.
Respect for our fellow posters is paramount to the continuing success of this forum.
Forum Rules
We need rules to help the forum run smoothly and protect our users.
So here are a few key pointers…
● All info is the opinion of posters – it’s not our view. We have an amazing
forum with a wealth of helpful info. Yet remember it’s open to all. Don’t rely on
information being accurate or complete. There are opinions as well as
statements of fact.
● Posting is a privilege, not a right. Any inappropriate posts or any issues
that make the forum a worse place to be will be stopped at our discretion –
with or without explanation.
● Please be nice to all posters. Remember, the prime aim is to help provide
info and resources. If you don’t like someone, their situation, their question or
feel they’re intruding on ‘your thread’ then please bite the bullet and think of
the bigger issue. Personal insults, sexist, and racist comments will not be
tolerated under any circumstance, and posters will be sanctioned if they
transgress in these areas.

Joss
Current car: BMW X2 sDrive 20i M Sport 5dr Step Auto In metallic Portimão Blue. 04:10:2025
Previous car:Peugeot 308 GT Premium 1.2 Pure tech Petrol.

[Brydo]

Chris can you post a voice note on the Forum lol. I would love to hear your rendition of that one.

I think its this one.

The only person who got all his work done by Friday was Robinson Crusoe.
Anything i post over three lines long please assume it is an article lol.

[ajn]

Thanks for posting the rules up Joss…

let’s dish them out evenly is a great start..?

Not when it suits ??

[struth]

not all sites are like that tbf.. i dont really think this site is bad for it either quite frankly.  you do get a bit occasionally, often through stress of waiting etc, plus the pandemic hasnt helped things in other ways either.

The site i work on, that behaviour is jumped on by mods just because it upsets the many who want a stress free, enjoyable few minutes every day, but dont like to complain; just vote with feet.

As i say i dont think this site is in any way bad for it, although it does happen…some of it is tongue in cheek of course but as there are not any emoji’s its very difficult not to accidentally upset when it wasnt your meaning.

Current Car: Hyundai Kona Premium EV...2 way 40kg hoist
Last Car: Toyota C-HR Excel Hybrid...4 way 80kg hoist

[Jonnybones]

its just endemic of the times, with the advent of social media people don’t now have to write a letter to “points of view” or stand on speakers corner to give their opinion. I do love the fact that information can be obtained by the click of a mouse but unfortunately that then makes everyone’s opinion available to everyone! After all how many people would really be bothered to write a letter to “points of view” if it involved effort?

I am a child of the 80s and if the same actions were made then that we make today then we would probably be committed 🙂

Imagine in the 80s I walked out of my house saw my neighbour told them what I was planning to have for dinner then took a dump in the street and invited everyone to look at it and comment on it and then write down their findings. Imagine the furore if decades ago the government suggested that everyone would carry a tracker that showed you every movement to within a few meters? but we did it ourselves. We have enslaved our conscious thought to machines in under 20 years!

I love the progress we have made with technology but I am glad I am an old fart and don’t have to see future generations with internet chips planted behind their eyes 🙂

Just my personal opinion here but we seem to have lost all dignity, and self respect and given up privacy.

the old saying opinions are like a””holes everyone has got them ( and has to share them like me)

😉

 

[Ditch]

Were did that last comment go?

[joss]

What comment was that @Ditch

Joss
Current car: BMW X2 sDrive 20i M Sport 5dr Step Auto In metallic Portimão Blue. 04:10:2025
Previous car:Peugeot 308 GT Premium 1.2 Pure tech Petrol.

[vinalspin]

@struth

Not sure what you mean about no emoji’s? ??

[Georgina Walker]

If you have a disability you are as pompous as the rest of the the able bodied. Sorry for morbidly obese people who are not able to get out of bed because they have given up attitude. People who are in wheelchairs may have eaten too much and cannot be arsed..Maybe they should move themselves instead of scrubbing! No, I think that the problem with society is that you are not immune to becoming disabled and unless people who are morbidly obese due to spinal damage or diseases then why do you think that you won’t fall off your bike? See you are not talking sensibly. You do not know how others, especially wheelchair bound people would probably be seen. Because I looked after my parents and my Mum, gave up. She had a rare form arthritis which suddenly hit her and her body became unable to cope and she felt safe in bed. However I pushed my mummy round in her wheelchair and she said it made her feel like a nobody after years of walking everywhere up Welsh mountains and then I said, don’t speak to me, speak to my mother. People see fat people in wheelchairs as lazy lard arses. And accuse them and speak to them like they are imbeciles. And speak to the wheelchair pusher. I used to say speak to my mother, and have some bloody respect. So you also are self critique of your wife. Think on…how long can You keep a grip on the road? I fell off my bike. Twice. But everyone is going through whatever and disabled wheelchair victims are victimised by their spouses even more. So think on. Everyone. This is a site that is guided by selfish people who I am in no financial position to be able to be so lucky to have the kindness of a caring family. I walk to my last breath. It’s not easy with spinal injuries though. Helps to be morbidly obese because there are many people who get so fat they just eat and eat because they have mental problems and food is their drug of choice. Fact.

[struth]

sorry i cant follow that post….

Current Car: Hyundai Kona Premium EV...2 way 40kg hoist
Last Car: Toyota C-HR Excel Hybrid...4 way 80kg hoist

[ChrisK]

struth wrote:

sorry i cant follow that post….

Sounds like a DWP assessor.?

[Oscarmax]

Have you noticed just lately posting some strange war mongering posts ?

Unfortunately I have suffered a brain injury and occasionally I get confused and often say the wrong thing.

[DumfriesDik]

struth wrote:

sorry i cant follow that post….

Which part escapes you?!??

I think it’s just an example of being righteous. I could be wrong though.

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[ajn]

Wow great discriptions & wording here borderline bizarre..

[Author]

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