Thanks for all the replies, I really do appreciated it. The current dealer we use supplies 12 manufacturers, so hopefully I can at least see if I can get in and out of several models.
Not sure about the Tiguan read the reviews we have a dealer very close to us so maybe take a look, seats may not be suitable as they are recaro style.
The Qashqai maybe a bit low at 1635 mm I couldn’t get in and out of the 3008 1624 mm.
ChrisK yes I do need a scooter with suspension I have a supa scoota spartan the suspension is under the seat works well, I also have the lithium battery with it so much lighter than a std battery. We do need all the seats, my sister and her husband live a few hundred meters from us, we would all like to go out together more since she is on her second round of chemo, and we have all been hit by how fragile life is, we are very close and over the last 5 years nearly all our family have passed away.
The two occasions I have delt with Motability grants, they really didn’t seem to understand my disabilities, and some cars they suggested were almost comical “a mini was one”.