Lou I hope all goes well for you, and totally understand your concerns.
Mrs ajn went in for surgery just before Xmas, op to remove some nasties..
I was shielding but determined to drop her of and pick her up the only thing I could do.
To be honest I just wanted her back home..
However if it eases your mind she said the staff realise it’s not easy for people and they really went the extra mile with understanding and reassurance.
I think people on this forum might have certain views maybe not always agree, but things like this we try to help out even in a small way, you’ve done it too for others.