My tiguan has adaptive cruise so I don’t expect the enyaq to feel a lot different in that regard. As for distance to the car in front, as you get more used to it and learn to trust it more you may move it closer like I did as the longest distance tends to encourage people to nip in front of you.
Mine is set right in the middle now but whenever I’m using it, my foot still stays in position over the brake, even after 4+ years.
Drives me nuts on the rare occasion my son drives the car as he always moves it to the closest setting.
"Man is born in freedom, but he soon becomes a slave, in cages of convention, from the cradle, to the grave."