Xc40 is a lovely suv but has too small a boot.
The Tiguan is just big enough and still offers better value and practicality plus the seats are great, in all but the bottom trim.
I was the same with the cx5 I just couldn’t get comfortable in the seat, but then again my spine is deformed so it’s not really surprising most car seats are uncomfortable for me.
next time I know my heart will want me to change makes, but these days my head (body) wins.