I get that but it’s why I’m confused 🤔 – is a 100 mile drive in which I’ll benefit but is done without me and results in an overnight stay allowed for my partner driving – or is when they say for my benefit it means a quick trip to the local shop and that is it – the language seems very ambiguous, I don’t want to do anything wrong / give my partner wrong advice but I really want some of the cheese 😁