I tried dying young, smoking & alcoholic for a bit, riding (and crashing at silly speed) motorcycles, hanging out with Hells Angels, travelling to dangerous parts of the world, getting stabbed (in UK not the aforementioned dangerous parts of the world), surfing & swimming with sharks in the Pacific regularly, divorced several times & even a plane crash.
It didn’t work…report card, as usual, says Must Try Harder…lol.
In life, it's not who you know that's important, it's how your wife found out.