Kim – For what it’s worth, you come across as an extremely sensible, rational and responsible person. On that basis, I have no doubt that you will make it work, whatever the eventual outcome. In a way it’s a win win for you. If you aren’t able to stay in the scheme long term it will be because your sons health has improved, which will be the best news of all. I’m sure that we would all hand our Motability cars back in a heartbeat if our health (or partners health) could be restored. Cars are just cars at the end of the day and I say that as someone who is a car lover!