Many thanks for your input guys, really appreciate it. I have already test driven the R design and both my wife and I found it a little hard. really would like to try the Inscription Pro and Tiguan before I make a final decision. I have 2 kids and the space in the XC40 was more than adequate for all passengers.
One other factor is how quickly i can get each car, Bigdave has put up some cracking deals on the Tiguan which are in stock from certain dealers whilst I think the XC40 is currently on 12 weeks wait.
Regards
Farid