Sorry to hear that Phil. I hope you can sort something out with your family.
I was in for some denervation on my neck last year, that’s when they told me my neck was fused. I was supposed to see a new consultant in March but of course that’s all been put back, so who knows when I’ll get another appointment. I’ve found reversing cameras are now a must have for me but naturally I try to have a look behind on occasions and regret it straight away.