Hi Mikey, Thanks for the replies – very helpful! Love the color. Sadly not available anymore.
With regards to the suspension its not too late to have the ‘Adaptive M Suspension’ added. Much to my surprise (i thought it musty be a hardware change) its actually available via an over the air software update from the BMW connected store – https://www.bmw.co.uk/en/shop/ls/cp/connected-drive
You can try it out for a month (£18) or £280 for 3 years.
There are several other updates available too.
My local dealers aren’t budging on the discounts for options unfortunately. I’m desperately searching for a dealer that will offer something!